Showing posts with label blogging. Show all posts
Showing posts with label blogging. Show all posts

Friday, November 26, 2010

I am such a bad wife and blogger too...

Matt is watching football right now...he has 3 games recorded to get through tonight...that means I have to find something to do besides play fetch with Drama for 4 hours!
About 5 minutes ago, I finally got off the couch and as I started to walk downstairs Matt asked, "Where are you going?"  I said, "Downstairs to get the camera..." He looked confused, so before he asked WHY I said, "To see if I have something to blog about :) It's time to get back on the horse!"
So here I am looking through my camera and I 
notice a few pics on Matt's birthday...OOPS!!
Everyone: Matt (my stud muff hubbster) had another birthday this year and I love him more than anything even though I totally spaced blogging about it!!

 For Matts Birthday this year we kept the same tradition we've done for our last two birthdays and we went to a concert.  We saw Sufjan Stevens at Kingsbury Hall and both LOVED the show.  Sufjan is so talented and sounded even more amazing in person...money well spent! 

These pics were taken on his birthday...when we got home from work Matt had to try on some glasses before he made a decision on his favorite frames and then sent the rest back to Warby Parker.
It started with me taking a picture of him in each frame...then somehow I got in a couple...then I was in the frames...as you can see, it really went downhill fast!!  In the spirit of November and Thanksgiving...I am so thankful I don't have to wear glasses...it's just not pretty!!


Just barely Matt looked over at me and asked,
"What ya doin' Tay?"
"blogging..."
"about what?"
"mmmm...yrbthay."
"MuhYYY BIRTHday?"
"yup."
"a month late?!"
"mmmhmm."
--lots of eye rolling and gasping--
it's true...
I'm a bad wife and a bad blogger too...


Happy 29th Matt!!
I am so proud of you and all that you do for us.
Love you long time!!
Love, 
 Tay

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Back and Blogging!

(and Matt's not exactly thrilled about it!  Does anyone else have an anti blog husband?)
P.S. Pay no attention to the red dots that are my eyes...I get it in almost every picture I take.

I've been lazy with my blog lately, but I am getting back on the horse!
I have posted quite a few winter 2009 posts in a poor attempt to catch up the blog.  Enjoy!

Thursday, January 28, 2010

my blog is about to get a make over...

...and I am so excited!!  this blog has become quite boring lately, but hopefully the new makeover will spice it up just enough to make me motivated to start posting on it again!  it's going to look awesome, so how could it not??
if you want one too, talk to my amazing cousin stacia to get hooked up!!

Friday, October 31, 2008

OH YES! Freedom of speech is wonderful!

As are all the wonderful other rights our sweet country offers us.

It was interesting to hear your views on my last post. Some agreeing with me, some disagreeing and some just in the middle. Thanks for sharing! I am proud to say I still stand by what I said.
The intent of my last post wasn't to hear about anyone's interpretation of Cali's prop 8 debate, I just wanted your views on GAY MARRIAGE in general...hence the title of the post. It is crazy what kind of emotions these sensitive topics bring out of each of us!
Since prop 8 was on most of your minds I will stand up for myself and say that I strongly disagree with those who interpret Prop 8 to take away your freedom of religion and parental rights. Prop 8 is fourteen simple words that people have twisted and manipulated into something else.
When writing that post I didn't expect my intelligence to be criticized and my values to be questioned and I feel bad that is the response I got from a couple of you(not necessarily in the comments). The last thing I want to do is offend, belittle, or challenge anybody else on their beliefs. I was just voicing mine on my little blogspot.
In my opinion, there is not one RIGHT way. There is no perfect answer and anything out of the norm should not be looked down upon, judged and punished but the world is full of intolerant people and sometimes that is the way it goes...which is very sad.
I love that we can each make our own decisions and use our rights to OUR advantage. And when the time comes to vote, it is our responsibility to do so. Thanks for commenting, it was interesting to see where you stand.
HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

GAY MARRIAGE

WHAT SHOULD THE DEFINITION OF MARRIAGE BE???

This has been a hot topic lately with California's Proposition 8:“Only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California.”
What do you think...should everyone, even gay couples, be ALLOWED (wait, isn't this a free country?) to be married? I am not a gay person nor do I understand it or condone it BUT...does this give me the right to tell gay people that because of their sexual preference, they are not equal to ME? NO!!
I know this is a sensitive subject for a lot of people because of the conflict it creates with some religious, particularly biblical, beliefs. BUT: Aren't Christians taught to love EVERYONE? Just because you disagree with someone or something doesn't give you the right to dictate how they live their lives, does it? Everyone is entitled to the pursuit of happiness. For hells sake, even an incarcerated person is given the right to marry!!
It is a hard concept for straight peeps (including me) to grasp that men can love men and women can love women. Our usual initial response is: WHY? HOW? WHEN? WHAT THE HELL? It is crazy, awkward, unnatural, wrong, and even perverse in a lot of our minds. This thought is prejudice and selfish. Just because it doesn't tickle our fancy doesn't mean we can decide whether it is right or wrong.
I work with gay people (the stereotypical male flight attendants), my mom and a few of mine and Matt's cousins are gay, people I went to college with live that lifestyle, and even several people from itty bitty hometown of Salina, UT are gay. I have been exposed (if you will) to this lifestyle in many ways and I haven't been affected by it in a negative way (as yes voters of prop 8 say our children will IF homosexuals are allowed marriage rights). I love my co-workers, family, classmates and neighbors no matter their sexual preference. They are good people who have found love in a different form than most of us and they deserve to be happy too. Why would we try to rob them from that? They deserve the right to be married just as much as straight people do.

Anyway...I know this may cause some of you to seriously hate on me but I just wanted to put my two cents in on the issue.
PLEASE Comment and tell me what you think...even if you haven't commented before or don't even know me ( I blog stalk too ya know)!! I would love to hear your stance and I won't be offended if you disagree with me! I don't like to get into debates over issues, I just like to hear why people believe what they believe;)

I thought this kid in the video made some interesting sarcastic points on the issue. (Trying to keep it light! Enjoy.)



Sidenote: Some of you know this and some of you don't...I haven't been talking to my mom for over a year now. I just want to say that I am not not talking to her because she is gay. There is a deeper reason and series of events that lie beneath the surface that I won't go into on the blog for personal reasons. Nevertheless, I support her in her happiness, whatever it may be even if my beliefs are different than hers...we are still equals and I love her all the same. I am proud of who my mom is and I'm happy that she has finally found happiness. I hope someday things between us will be like they used to be...but it will take time.
(Sorry to get personal, but I just had to say that so I don't sound hypocritical to those who know the situation).

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Tuesday Tell All: The Working Girl

So this post is a recap of all the jobs that I have had up to this point in my life with highlights on the best and worst.

When I was about 10 I instantly became the neighborhood babysitter. I was babysitting at least a couple times a week and loved it!
Every summer for 4-H I would become a farmer. I would raise and show two lambs in the county fair and that would be my income along with babysitting til I was in high school.
At that point I hired myself out to people in town to mow their lawns and clean their houses. I did that till I was finished with highschool. And for extra money in the summers I would umpire little league games.
My senior year of high school I took courses at Snow College Richfield. CNA and Cosmetology. After I was trained in the field it was a requirement to have hands on experience so they would schedule shifts where I would go work at the Richfield Care Center or do customers hair and nails.
After high school I moved up to Snow College and became an intramural worker...keeping scores, setting up, taking down, and using a timer. Easy but fun. I got to meet tons of people at college this way and l absolutely loved my coworkers.
During the summers I would move back to Salina and be a dispatcher for the State of Utah Wildfires.
Back at Snow my second year, I kept my intramural gig going and also picked up a second part time job where I worked at Manti High tutoring in the reading class.
After Snow I went back to being a dispatcher for a summer and Matt worked at the forest service so he would here me over the radio...But come August I wanted a break from school so I moved out to Vero Beach, Florida and was a nanny.
When I moved back, Matt was attending USU in Logan so naturally I looked for work and an apartment Cache Valley right away. I quickly found a good full time job at an ophthamologists office.
Once that school year ended and Matt moved to Minneapolis to sell security systems I was at a loss of what I should do so I moved to Salina and did nothing for about a week till a friend called and told me that the company Matt and his buddies worked for were hiring in a call center in Provo and that we should do it together. So we did. We moved to Provo (never again) and worked that summer! I even got to talk to Matt on the phone sometimes when he called his sales in...but we had to be professional so it was exciting and awkward at the same time! Even though I would recognize his number and voice right away I still had to ask him his full name. (Usually it was already typed in before he spoke).
At APX I became friends with a really sweet girl in upper management named Tara. One day we got talking and she told me her hubby was a pilot. I told her how I always wanted to be a flight attendant but couldn't cause of my height. She then told me all about the company her hubby works for and that it was a regional carrier flying shorter routes for Delta and United and that the plane were smaller....and that they were hiring!!! I went home, called Matt and we both decided I should do it. I applied that night on the internet.
I missed a day of work the next week to go to an interview at the hangar in SLC. That interview turned into two more and three days later I got an email letting me know they had offered me a position in training. I went to a three week long training course that was very intense and people were dropping like flies all around me but I made it through till graduation and my check ride so here I am today...a flight attendant.



I love my job and couldn't think of a better one for me. If you can't tell this is my favorite!! It was a challenge to get the job but now that I have it, it is so rewarding. It is a very easy job, I mean, I do deal with a lot of messy and noisy kids, angry passengers, sad passengers,very stupid passengers, and the hoity toity first class passengers, emergencies and minor things every day but overall my job description is basically this: "Would you like something to drink?...mmm, ok, and how about a snack" EASY!!! And I love it! I don't have to work hard....I can stimulate my brain by other ways like reading a good book in the galley or having good conversations with the passengers or other flight attendant.
I get so many questions everyday about my job from anyone that meets me and hears what I do so here are the basics.
I go to the airport and check in for my trip (a trip can last anywhere from 1-4 days but I usually do two day trips). I work about 3 flights a day (usually with another flight attendant but sometimes alone depending on the size of the plane).
When I get on the plane I do security checks and make sure the plane is stocked appropriately. Then the passengers board and they all whine to me about everything and I smile and nod. Once they are on I get on the PA and say a few required announcements for safety and other information then close the bins and tell people to do what I already told them to do over the PA ie put your seatbelt on, turn your ipod off, put your bag under the seat. Then I do paper work and passenger counts making sure no terrorist is on :) then I talk to the pilots for a minute of briefing which includes: flight time, elevation, bumpy or not, how many passengers on board, entry signal to the cockpit if we want to go up and chill with them, if there is anything broken on the plane (lights, seats, coffee makers, etc) then we tell them we are ready for taxi and close the cockpit door. One more announcement and walk through to make sure people are following the FAA rules and then I take my jumpseat and sit down. The pilots call, I tell them the cabins secure, and we take off. At 10,000 feet make another announcement that it's safe to use electronic devices. Then at cruising altitude, we serve. After that, stock the galley, do trash sweeps through the cabin, answer call buttons and chill in the galley reading books, magazines or just chatting.
On descent we make another announcement and prepare the cabin for landing.
On landing, we welcome them to their destination and thank them for flying with us. Once everyone is off we tidy up the plane and board more passengers.
I do the same thing every flight and then wherever or last flight takes us is where we stay in a hotel the company sets up for us. If we get in early we (sometimes...depending how nerdy the pilots are..jk, hah!) hang out, go to dinner as a crew, see the city or do whatever we want. Then the next day we go back to the airport and fly around some more.
I love to fly and I love to meet so many new people and see so many new places. I love working with a different crew every trip! I never get sick of them.
I love the flexibility with this job. I only work about 15 days of the month and I am home almost every other night if not more. I pick and choose where and when I work and how long I am gone. It is so sweet, I will probably never quit!

Now for my least favorite (which I have already mentioned...) can you guess?







That's right! A CNA!!!



Working at the Richfield Care Center was no pleasant experience for me! I could barely stomach it at most times. Don't get me wrong, I love the elderly but once they get to that point they are just suffering in their own bodies...it is quite sad. But you will think that you are caring for a sweet, frail, dying, little old grandma till you try to take her for a shower or get her dentures out and then you will see the truth of just how much life they still have in them. Even though their arms are just bones, they put up a heck of a fight! I was bitten, pooped on, kicked and called many names by the sweet grandmas in the care center!
McKell is just finishing up her senior year as well as her CNA in Richfield. A few months back she came to me asking for my advice about whether or not she should do the CNA course. Believe me, I gave her fair warning and told her I would NOT do it if I were her. But thankfully she didn't listen to me and she just finished it! She absolutely LOVES it and she comes home with the funniest stories. For example...she was showering a lady the other day and her instructor told McKell and her partner that they needed to be sure to wash everywhere...including under the breasts. So Mckell was going about the shower with this woman and she told her she was going to wash under her breast and the woman said, "oh hear let me help ya with that!" and then proceeded to pick her boob off her stomach and throw it over her shoulder out of Kell's way!!!! Hilarious.
Sometimes you have to take care of the old men too and that is even worse...they are usually more cooperative and nice...but only cause they are perverts and like young girls cleaning their parts! When I was in high school I didn't sign up to see that!
One guy sang a song to me and Penny when we worked there and it went like this..."I'm a little tea pot short and stout...what used to be my sex appeal is now my water spout!" Penny was my partner when we were at the Care Center and let me just publicly thank her for doing all the dirty work that I couldn't do. I would literally feel puke coming up if I was taking one of them to the restroom...Penny would see my face, take the toilet paper from my hand and finish the job! Thank heavens for Kell's and Pen's of the world!!!


I am just not good with the old people. I was at my Grandma Camp's house the other day and I was talking to her about a lot of stuff and in the middle of our conversation my Great Grandma Sparks pipes in and says, "You ask too many questions!" I took that as a polite "shut up." I didn't even know she could hear me!
Oh man, I don't wanna get old!!!


By the way...NEVER google Flight Attendant or Nurse unless you have the word "cartoon" in front of it!!! Not Good! You will see way more than you want!

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Tuesday Tell All

I have started something new!!! I have seen this on a few of your blogs already and I wanted in on the fun, so I joined the blog group called Tuesday Tell All. This is how it works: every Friday the makers of the blog think of a topic that all the members can write about on Tuesday. It is a good prompt for a blog post and it also helps to remind me to document important things in my life a little better for my future children and grandchildren to read about at least one day of every week. So here goes my first TTA post. The topic for this week is "what's in a name?" The funny thing about this prompt is that I already wrote about my name a few posts back. Here is a link to the original post for those of you who care ;)

http://mattandtay.blogspot.com/2008/01/whats-in-name.html

Here is a shorter version:
My name is: Tatum Camp Olsen

Tatum....came from one of my mom's high school student's (Krissy Johnson) suggesting it in a baby guessing contest. Each student would 1) guess if I was going to be a boy or girl, 2) guess the weight of the baby 3) guess the height of the baby and 4) just for fun put name suggestions down. Krissy liked the actress Tatum O'Neil

(From the movie "Paper Moon") so that is what she suggested and that is what my parents used. Before Krissy suggested Tatum, here are some of the other names they thought about....Soleil, Sierra, Lindsey and Skyler Judd (if I was a boy).

Camp...came from my father...and his father and his father and so on....

Olsen...came from my cute hubby Matt. I am still practicing my signature with my newest name addition...did anyone else have a hard time getting used to your married name?

My Nicknames: Tay, Tater, Tate, O'Neil, and you can read the rest on the original post...there are some good ones!

As far as names for my children...we'll cross that bridge when we come to it! When I was younger, I used to write down names I loved and wanted to name my kids...but they have since changed. And now that Matt is in the picture, it is even more complicated to agree on a name that both of us like...He comes up with the weirdest names! It's a good thing we don't have to worry about baby naming quite yet!

Anyway, that is me...Tatum C. Olsen


Kind of a weird name, kind of a weird girl!!!


If any of you wanna check out TTA here is the link...
http://tuesdaytellall.blogspot.com
It is an open group so join us if you want!!